How old should a person be when they get married? Options

i think when they are ready to put there family first but now days everyone is getting married at a very young age so i think at least about 23-25 what do you think?

It depends on the person, some mature faster than others..

True say Saira.

It depends on the person. For some 18 is the right age, for others 26 and for others maybe even 40. Whatever floats your boat I suppose.

At the age where a person can fully understand the responsibility of having and raising a family. Females mature faster than guys so older men younger women.

marriage is serious business, yup when u yourself are ready for it, dont let anyone tell u 'when its time', its ur life ur gona be spending YOUR life with him not any1 else....oh but delay the idea as much as possible man ur life changes once ur married ur not a kid no more..remeber if ur asian u get married 2 a family not the dude himself....oh and the girl needs to be educated b4 marriage not after how the hell is she meant to study with...well anyways dont wana go into dat but yh the girl needs to be independant, job and not rely on the husband u no wot i mean....anyways girls make sure u make a wise choice, dont let anyone choose 4 u, u gotta have ur say in it. DONT go 4 sum1 wid a bad bad temper and 4 gods sake dont go 4 a rich guy use ur common sense go 4 a average guy with ATLEAST a brain..oh and make sure the dude is older then u guys are bk in the head...i cud go on 4eva..but cnt be bovad besides its kinda getin of topic...dont wana scare ya it aint dt bad really just gotta be prepared 4 da worst.......talkin 4rm experiance.........
if it dosn't make sense den...erh i dunno its 3 in the mornin so yh...

Islamically one can marry at a minimum of 9 or so if they are a girl, or 12 when they are a boy, depending on when they are Baaligh (physically mature). However, it would be better to get married as soon as possible, to prevent Zina and other Fahishaa' from occuring.

-Abdul Aziz

Islamically one can marry at a minimum of 9 or so if they are a girl, or 12 when they are a boy, depending on when they are Baaligh (physically mature). However, it would be better to get married as soon as possible, to prevent Zina and other Fahishaa' from occuring.

-Abdul Aziz

So in Islam it is okay for a seventh grader to marry a fourth grader as long as both have reached puberty. Someone tell me this isn't so.

Islamically one can marry at a minimum of 9 or so if they are a girl, or 12 when they are a boy, depending on when they are Baaligh (physically mature). However, it would be better to get married as soon as possible, to prevent Zina and other Fahishaa' from occuring.

-Abdul Aziz

So in Islam it is okay for a seventh grader to marry a fourth grader as long as both have reached puberty. Someone tell me this isn't so.

marriage after puberty is allowed in most religions.

In modern times, i think a person should get married around 20 if Muslim. (im 19...shiz....)

ok how bout 25..... no 30.... no NEVER

^What? The guy be 20 or both?

19.


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dats toooo young man

ur lifes doomed once ur married...

Actually its not doomed.
I don’t know what kind of image you have of marriage, but its nice.
Marriage does not mean kids and bills.

Actually its not doomed.
I don't know what kind of image you have of marriage, but its nice.
Marriage does not mean kids and bills.

It does mean kids and bills but it also means you have help.

Actually i dont.



Islamically huba is a degree above me, financially. So i'll help if i feel like it.

aww Thats mean, I'll help my hubby.

Islamically one can marry at a minimum of 9 or so if they are a girl, or 12 when they are a boy, depending on when they are Baaligh (physically mature). However, it would be better to get married as soon as possible, to prevent Zina and other Fahishaa' from occuring.

-Abdul Aziz

So in Islam it is okay for a seventh grader to marry a fourth grader as long as both have reached puberty. Someone tell me this isn't so.

They both have to be mentally, aswell as physically ready and mature.

Back then, a 9 year old would be the same as a 16 year old here (physcially + mentally). Times have changd. It would be hard to find a girl who has matured both ways at the age of 9.

When AlaMalik says doomed.. meaning its a (should be. we dont exactly get married to get divorced) LIFE commitment.. something you cant run away from or just simply 'leave'. At the age of 19.. ready to make a life decision...?

u guys have a bad picture man. marriage is basically finding urself a new best friend who ull be with forever, someone u can be comfortable with

agewise i would say whenever u think ur ready but early so as not to fall into temptation

Islamically one can marry at a minimum of 9 or so if they are a girl, or 12 when they are a boy, depending on when they are Baaligh (physically mature). However, it would be better to get married as soon as possible, to prevent Zina and other Fahishaa' from occuring.

-Abdul Aziz

So in Islam it is okay for a seventh grader to marry a fourth grader as long as both have reached puberty. Someone tell me this isn't so.

well if they are emotionally ready it is Halaal, however, it is better to wait until you are more stable, say, at the age of 16 and up.