If You Were Married... Options

and Hi everyone

Gents - if you got married, what would you expect from your wife? Would you allow her independence, if so, to what extent? And should she match your personality, or someone who is compatible with your personality - or don't you mind what her personality is because that will be a chance for you to learn something new and diverse from the spouse?

Ladies, if you got married, same question as above, except, would you mind if you would have to give up some of your independence? And is it really important for you to marry someone that will get along with your personality type?

While we're at it, take this personality type test and tell us your results:
http://www.humanmetrics.com/cgi-win/JTypes2.asp

Well I am married, and it is a adventure. Communication is the key. Independence gosh I don't remember what that means anymore. It's like it doesn't feel restrictive, but we are more like interdependent. Not CO-dependent but inter-dependent on each other.

Still think about what would I do if it all fell apart, right now I think I would pick up and move to Algeria, if the US would give me a passport, and I don't think they would. So I would take my last paycheck and go to REI and buy all the survial gear I could and head to the mountains and not come back..


Your Type is
ENFPExtraverted-1
Intuitive- 25
Feeling-62
Perceiving-11
You are:

• slightly expressed extravert
• moderately expressed intuitive personality
• distinctively expressed feeling personality
• slightly expressed perceiving personality

This post has been edited by Jahz: Apr 6 2008, 10:27 AM

Famous people of your particular type
Isaac Newton, Niels Bohr, C. G. Jung, Michel Montaigne, Michel Nostradamus, Ada Lovelace


Thats so funny I named Isaac after that one person. Oh by the way INTP.

hey interesting thread

i got:

ENFJ

EXTRAVERTED 56
INTUITIVE 38
FEELING 38
JUDGING 11

uh

Famous people of your particular type
Isaac Newton, Niels Bohr, C. G. Jung, Michel Montaigne, Michel Nostradamus, Ada Lovelace


Thats so funny I named Isaac after that one person. Oh by the way INTP.

Dangg, you gots the cool people.

Your Type is
INFJIntrovertedIntuitiveFeelingJudging
Strength of the preferences %
33
50
25
1

Qualitative analysis of your type formula
You are:

• moderately expressed introvert
• moderately expressed intuitive personality
• moderately expressed feeling personality
• slightly expressed judging personality

This post has been edited by The Majnoon: Apr 20 2008, 02:55 PM

Famous people of your particular type
Isaac Newton, Niels Bohr, C. G. Jung, Michel Montaigne, Michel Nostradamus, Ada Lovelace


Thats so funny I named Isaac after that one person. Oh by the way INTP.

Dangg, you gots the cool people.

I know!

http://www.personalitypage.com/INFJ.html

maj

Your Type is INFJ Introverted Intuitive Feeling Judging

Strength of the preferences (%) 22 50 12 44

You are:

• slightly expressed introvert
• moderately expressed intuitive personality
• slightly expressed feeling personality
• moderately expressed judging personality

Furthermore, the Counselor is most likely of all the types to demonstrate an ability to understand psychic phenomena and to have visions of human events, past, present, or future.

oooh.. huh

INFJs are gentle, caring, complex and highly intuitive individuals. Artistic and creative, they live in a world of hidden meanings and possibilities. Only one percent of the population has an INFJ Personality Type, making it the most rare of all the types.

yeah blessing, we are rare

^

LOL. Yeah.

Extraverted22
Intuitive25
Thinking75
Judging 11


You are:
slightly expressed extravert

moderately expressed intuitive personality

distinctively expressed thinking personality

slightly expressed judging personality

Your Type is
INFP
Introverted Intuitive Feeling Perceiving
Strength of the preferences %
67 75 25 22


Qualitative analysis of your type formula

You are:

* distinctively expressed introvert
* distinctively expressed intuitive personality
* moderately expressed feeling personality
* slightly expressed perceiving personality

Ladies, if you got married, same question as above, except, would you mind if you would have to give up some of your independence? And is it really important for you to marry someone that will get along with your personality type?

Wouldn't give up my independence, so yeah. I'd marry someone like me.

Extraverted 6
Intuitive 6
Thinking 31
Judging 11

You are:
slightly expressed introvert
slightly expressed intuitive personality
moderately expressed thinking personality
slightly expressed judging personality

o.o wow we have a lot of extraverted ppl

I wonder how accurate these things are. Also how come everyone hasn't taken the quiz yet?

im isfj...

Introverted 67 (true)

Sensing 38

Feeling 50

Judging 33 (na i judge people a lot, unfortunatly)

i took it, i forgot what i was though o.o

i am an ENTJ

There you go Ali

I did this in Psychology too
Strength of the preferences %


It says Princess Diana, JK rowling and Florence Nightingale had the same type.
Thats cool.


This post has been edited by Breeze: Aug 17 2011, 09:16 AM

These are all very interesting results. Going back to my original question, I wouldn't want to give up a good sense of independence nor do I expect a spouse to give up his rightful independence too... Having said that, I prefer we can identify with each other's personalities yet have a really strong contrast because it provides a challenge and in turn a way of learning to complement each other based on the differences in lifestyle, thoughts and ideas. What I'd never do is marry someone exactly like me or very much like myself personality-wise. However, a person completely different to who I am to the extent of being the total opposite I would definitely find awkward and incompatible. Note - there's a big difference between what a personality is and what a person's character is.

its funny how most people got carried away with their personality numbers (can a personality be quantified? dunno) and didnt really answer the original question! lol.