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Advice: Men vs. Women
Men want sex and women want to share their feelings. Hara Estroff Marano gives advice on gender differences.

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Men vs. Women

What bewilders me, and maybe others, is differences between men and women. It seems to me, that most often men's driving force (conscious or unconcious) is sex but a woman's driving force is emotional exchange. Women want to receive things like recognition, validation, feeling needed and wanted and of course, to be loved. When do a man's emotions come into play beyond sexual desire? What makes the crossover from sexual desire to something more?

Sad but true, some men don't know how to emotionally connect with anyone, including women. Unfortunately, some also were raised according to such a double standard that they can't countenance sex and affection in the same package. Many men want to emotionally connect with a woman, and to connect with their own children, but it's also true that many don't know how to be vulnerable, which is what intimacy demands. They're often caught in a bind, wanting more emotional depth to their lives but not knowing how to get it because boys are taught from a young age that emotional stuff is girls' stuff. Truth is, emotional stuff is human being stuff. What's a poor woman to do? First and most important-choose the right guy. Someone with whom you establish a conversation and rapport before you jump into bed. And then recognize that men often do express affection though sex. Further, the closeness they feel after sex presents a great opportunity for conversation that contains the "emotional exchange" so satisfying to women (and to men, too). But women sometimes demand too much emotional talk from men. Women need to recognize that men often express affection best through actions (changing a light bulb, fixing the VCR) rather than words.


Psychology Today Magazine, August 19, 2003
Last Reviewed 14 Nov 2005
Article ID: 2964
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This post has been edited by poga: Apr 18 2008, 09:50 AM

Yes men do everything to get the attention of women and women do nothing to get the attention of men

men are amazing!!

..........

Anyways.

This post has been edited by iamcrazy: Apr 18 2008, 11:56 AM

..........

Anyways.

Tell him how you want to.
Say; Which women gave you the right to say men are amazing. Come on I know you want to. I vote one for women over men.

LOL thats exactly what i was going to say

lol this is a funny thread

Women are unique
Men are stolid

Both Men and Women are essential to each other therefore we are both fantastico.
Kind of unfair to say men have no feelings and only want one thing...well its true but well thats Men, and some of them are pretty fab i'm sure. and Women are fab, who dares to dis-agree?!

whatever

im sure poga wont disagree with you keekee!

Shut up Sami

I don't even know this shakespearen

Yes men do everything to get the attention of women and women do nothing to get the attention of men

charmer!

im sure poga wont disagree with you keekee!

Yes, KeeKee...you know what?

I vote your comment to be the best in this thread. ( )

LMHO!

Anyhoo...um yeah, guys have feelings

omg blessing, you KILLED IT!!!!

ugh stop it, this is creepy now!

im sure poga wont disagree with you keekee!

Yes, KeeKee...you know what?

I vote your comment to be the best in this thread. ( )

LMHO!

Anyhoo...um yeah, guys have feelings

Only if it will get us some where.

i know many women who are much more perverted than being emotional

FLZ secretly craves to be a woman.

omg blessing, you KILLED IT!!!!

ugh stop it, this is creepy now!

Sowwee..couldn't help it

And this relates to islam How?

In islam men and women strive together to please ALLAh, We dont go against eachother.


( i deleted this personal insult because i felt like being nice - be thankful)

This post has been edited by kellyjaz: Apr 19 2008, 03:30 PM

^ayt KJ.

Topic moved.

no im happy to be a man



This post has been edited by blessing: Apr 19 2008, 06:01 PM

Reason for edit: Such a filthy mind.

oh shut up s exist jerk