Marrying Someone 10 Years Older Options

...if your extremely immature, is it a bad choice to marry someone 10 years older?

This post has been edited by kellyjaz: Jul 3 2008, 06:50 PM

Hmmmmmmm.. I personally disagree with marrying people who are more than 8 years older.. and personally I would prefer 6 to be the limit.. coz both of them are from 2 different generations unless the guy is acting 10 years older or something, but still even with that I disagree with it..

and about prophet and Syyida Khadijah.. they are from a very different worlds.. besides the prophet's mind is built to adopt with all types of people, so age isn't the deal for him.. and all his marriages were for a Godly perpouse.. about love.. yes it's important but 5 or so years into the marriage and the age gap would show coz they'll have different views of life..
I'm not judging anyone & it's a peronal choice, but I don't aprove it

and the “real imature” thing cracked me up... looooool..

let me tell u some real stories from the stupid Saudi society.. many guys in their last 20s or their beinning of 30s marry girls who just graduated from high school.. which I belive is STUPID.. many of them got divorce.. I know some girls who like the 10years gap coz they say the guy would be mature and he'd understand life better...looool

~ wonderer