What Is The Right Age To Get Married, marriage Options

i just joined this site recently and actually like the topics being discussed here i was just wanting your thoughts in what the suitable age to get married is

i personally think it is 18 i myself am 18 too and am thinkin of getting married

can i have your thoughts in what i should do

get married.


This post has been edited by immaslapyou: Dec 2 2008, 11:03 AM

20 and over.
Its good your thinking, well you should be ideally, it completes half of your religion in Islam and is somethin to look forward to!
Plus it eliminates all the mistrust and you can finally enjoy!
Id advise you to wait a couple of years and see what happens in that time.
Good luck!

JJ

You can't go by physical age.. Its the maturity level. I know some 28 year olds that are not ready to marry.

Whenever you are financially set.

thanks for your thoughts but i agree with immaslapyou just get married

and just like jj said IT IS SOMETHING TO LOOK FORWARD LOLLL

AND I THINK IT DOES DEPEND ON YOUR MATURITY and im finantional settled ive got more than everything MASHALLAH

You might want to read some posts in the following thread:
http://muslimonline.org/forum/index.php?s=...ost&p=80335

I'll second most of what's in the link, in response to your thread question.

read the thread posted by the sister above.. iA iv just made some comments that might come in handy.

It will happen when the time is right,.. Inshallah and you will know when tht time is

sunnah to get married young but i dont think too young

thanks for your thoughts but i agree with immaslapyou just get married

and just like jj said IT IS SOMETHING TO LOOK FORWARD LOLLL

AND I THINK IT DOES DEPEND ON YOUR MATURITY and im finantional settled ive got more than everything MASHALLAH

I beg your pardon, whats so funny about that?
You will probably find immature people married too you know.

-JJ

Well.. age isn't that important.. I agree with Juan it should be based on maturity..

and marriage could be fun, but 2 tips>>
1.you have to be %100 sure of the guy... %99 isn't good enough.. when u r sure, u'll be happier..
2.marriage is a HUGE responsibilit..

u r young.. I say have fun.. then get married

~wonderer

I believe Islam haven't restricted a specific age for marriage because it's depend on how person become mature and how he can handle his responsibility in his married life.

good luck in your life and God bless you

younger is better

Too young = not good because you don't want to regret the rest of your life not taking marriage seriously.
My friend once told meh, when you get married your life is over...i didn't get what she meant. But i think she meant you have more responsibilities and have to do things you don't want to do. Your bound to the marriage obligations for the rest of your life. You need to be prepared.

Like that Lion King song 'Beee prepaaareed!!'

13 for girls, guys whenever, young though

13 for girls, guys whenever, young though

Whats this, double standards?

What makes you think a 13 year old girl (in this day and age) should get married?? Do you think they'd be able to cope with the responsibilities..?

well it's better than getting pregnant without knowing who the father is ain't it?

Oh because the girl got pregnant by herself and every young female goes through that process.

/sarcasm

This type of thinking is back from cave men times, really get with the real picture. You seem to have forgotten that a male would also take part in the process.

Respecta do you live under a rock or something? Are you forgetting it takes TWO to make a baby? Someone kindly give him the birds and bees talk.

Your basically saying a girlof 13 should marry simply to prevent her getting pregnant? Yeah thats the kind of system we need today, brilliant. How many men sleep around and don't even know how many children they might have?

Whatever happened to educating youngsters further on the issue of pregnancy? Rather than forcing them to marry when they probably haven't even reached puberty yet.