Asian Weddings Options

^LOOOL! always happens to me! but they explain it in the asian way.. like " i am your nanis narans chokris bhabis.....".. me.. "i have no idea what they are" *blink and walk away*

hi guys
i actually dont agree asian weddings are ace bright colourful n mad every time some 1 gets married me n my cousins we have a great laf onnce we laffed so much we were cryin
ther not all bad

foooood

hate the camera thing HATE EVERYTHING about it!

you know what i h8 about asian weddings? all these freaking old women coming over and grilling me, then saying ' my son is sooo goodlooking, you would suit' or ' my grandson is a doctor....very high wage.....would you ....?'
until i'd like to scream: ' tell your freaking son to find a wife himself if hes so goodlooking! and don't compliment me on my fair skin you racist cow! and ALSO don't be nosy! and AAAlso, only my mums indian'

which is why when i go to an asian wedding, i'll wear like a black sorceress style black fishtail skirt suit (different styles, designs but black) and apparently that makes me look reaaally snobby and un approachable, so they stay away. and also no one else wears black to weddings so thats another thing i enjoy.

all the oldies who just come to weddings to gobble the food and criticize things. over the top deco and spending thousands on a theme thats just tacky and wanna be wealthy looking. get a grip; go elegant and simple and unique and gorgeous, not the most expensive, tackiest stuff you can get.

yeah rant over.

asian weddings

bust out the shalwar kameez and the aladdin style khusay

big pimpin
lol joke
nah, noone ever proposes to me like that looL
but yeee i love the food..i dont like going to family friend's weddings coz i hardly know them...like goin to families because then i have so many jokesss

HATE weddings.

the only thing good about weddings is the food. FOOD. I remember the last wedding we went to.. i didnt even see the brides face

the last wedding i went to..my brother looked more of a groom then the groom himself

and accordin to sister...
my aunties looked more of a bride then the bride herself

last wedding i went to was my own AND I HATED IT! I HATE WEDDINGS

why?

you hated your own wedding? thats new!
lol Keeks- same happens to me- "oh baaa.. dudh jewi che tu. kekla waras ni che tu? maro potro che..."
i never wear proper clothes to weddings. i wear jilbab all the time a nice one though. Amongst all the colourful people i am the easiest to spot cuz i am in black from head to toe.
But yeh i hate photographers and sometimes the groom has to come and sit with his wife. like go away dude you have your whole life with her now go back to the guys area you silly fool!:P

and then in some weddings all these old buddhis go and stuff mithai in the bride and grooms face, poor things, i would scare them so badly if they tried to do that to me.

tupid i hate it wen they do the mithu moru!!...lol i mostly wear jilbs aswell unless its sum1 close and yh those cameras argh!!! i ahte goin to weddings tho but close weddings are nice...family2geda...

do you guys have rasaams? e.g. niking the grooms shoes/place and he has to pay up? if soo tell us them ... ther different in every culture

-KRAZY-

This post has been edited by KRAZY: Mar 16 2008, 05:09 PM

lol no... but for some reason the grooms sisters stop him and ask him to give them money.
my bro put money in my jacket pocket the day before! haha
anyone seen the milkshake thing? where the groom makes his wife drink milkshake? lol some bakwaas all that is man.

wow

ye they nick the shoe.. all culture man tawba

DUDE THERE ARE SOME that hold a baby and a quran? sayin its good luck or something?

LOL@ MILKSHAKE

iamcrazy... i heard about that, i think the baby thing is when you hold a baby gurl on your wedding day they say your first child is going to be a gurl ... verse visa if you hold a boy .....

and the Quran is they put it over your head while your leaving the wedding for good luck .. i think ...

every culture is different lol i had to wear a vile covering my face 1 week towards my wedding and on my mehndi ... and on my wedding day my hubby has to be the first to look at my face in the mirror .. they place it infront of us on the weddin day lift my scaff and tell him to look at me, lol .

-KRAZY-

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hei, asian wedding is not that boring. In my country, it was really nice. that is the day i go to help my neighbour to prepare for the feast! it's like helping out each other. Usually in rural areas, we will bring some rice , sugar or egg, thats mean the brie father didnt hav to spend much for the feast. we will hav the 'kompang'. of course only some certain groom and bride groom will take pictures, its only an option.My sister was married to a chinese man( a muslim) and the celebration is more glam. its was the chinese-Malay wdding celebration. Where there are fireworks, lion dance, silat and kompang. It was relly colourful and i was really hapy onthat multi-racial wedding ceremony. I was been foce to play my violin in front of the audience. i feel quite scared, but everything had been ok. thanks to god and all of my villagers people