and Hi everyone

Gents - if you got married, what would you expect from your wife? Would you allow her independence, if so, to what extent? And should she match your personality, or someone who is compatible with your personality - or don't you mind what her personality is because that will be a chance for you to learn something new and diverse from the spouse?

Ladies, if you got married, same question as above, except, would you mind if you would have to give up some of your independence? And is it really important for you to marry someone that will get along with your personality type?

While we're at it, take this personality type test and tell us your results:
http://www.humanmetrics.com/cgi-win/JTypes2.asp

your type is ENTJ:
Extraverted 1%
Intuitive 75%
Thinking 75%
Judging 56%

You are:
very expressed extravert

moderately expressed intuitive personality

slightly expressed thinking personality

moderately expressed judging personality



Yes i would.


Obviously you cant live with someone that hates the things you love. Personality differences are fine but there should be a ground for commonality.

Your Type is
ISTP
Introverted Sensing Thinking Perceiving
Strength of the preferences %
33 25 12 11

Qualitative analysis of your type formula

You are:
moderately expressed introvert

moderately expressed sensing personality

slightly expressed thinking personality

slightly expressed perceiving personality

Your Type is INFJ Introverted Intuitive Feeling Judging

Strength of the preferences (%) 22 50 12 44

You are:

• slightly expressed introvert
• moderately expressed intuitive personality
• slightly expressed feeling personality
• moderately expressed judging personality

Furthermore, the Counselor is most likely of all the types to demonstrate an ability to understand psychic phenomena and to have visions of human events, past, present, or future.

oooh.. huh

Strength of the preferences %
Introverted 72
Intuitive 38
Feeling 62
Judging 11

distinctively expressed introvert

moderately expressed intuitive personality

distinctively expressed feeling personality

slightly expressed judging personality

hmmm
i have no idea!

Strength of the preferences %

Extraverted 33
Sensing 1
Feeling 12
Perceiving 44

Your Type is
ESFP

Extraverted 11
Sensing 1
Feeling 50
Perceiving 11

Strength of the preferences %

You are:
slightly expressed extravert

slightly expressed sensing personality

moderately expressed feeling personality

slightly expressed perceiving personality



Um o.0 ...



Reson for edit: It got messed up.

AHA ! I found real meanings:

Krazy: http://www.personalitypage.com/ISTP.html

Stripey: http://www.personalitypage.com/ENTJ.html


ah cant be bothered

www.personalitypage.com or google it! I read mine it was er pretty much right ish

^ huh :S

The ENJT stuff.

Your Type is
INFJ
Introverted Intuitive Feeling Judging
Strength of the preferences %
33 38 25 44

moderately expressed introvert

moderately expressed intuitive personality

moderately expressed feeling personality

moderately expressed judging personality

ooo thanks Saira! very interesting

lol is it any were near the truth?

ummmm... i'll let others judge that:P

Hm its different here.. juan you try it out too!

And should she match your personality, or someone who is compatible with your personality - or don't you mind what her personality is because that will be a chance for you to learn something new and diverse from the spouse?
i would expect everything from her that she expects from me - full 50/50 partnership.

or course id allow her independence - whatever extent she feels she needs. why would it be otherwise

in a perfect world we should compliment each others personality, or atleast be able to handle each others personalities lol----if you arent compatible then why would you even get married in the 1st place.......

i am an ENTJ

^cool same here!

How did I miss this thread? Okay Saira I will take the test thingy.

Well I am married, and it is a adventure. Communication is the key. Independence gosh I don't remember what that means anymore. It's like it doesn't feel restrictive, but we are more like interdependent. Not CO-dependent but inter-dependent on each other.

Still think about what would I do if it all fell apart, right now I think I would pick up and move to Algeria, if the US would give me a passport, and I don't think they would. So I would take my last paycheck and go to REI and buy all the survial gear I could and head to the mountains and not come back..


Your Type is
ENFPExtraverted-1
Intuitive- 25
Feeling-62
Perceiving-11
You are:

• slightly expressed extravert
• moderately expressed intuitive personality
• distinctively expressed feeling personality
• slightly expressed perceiving personality

Famous people of your particular type
Isaac Newton, Niels Bohr, C. G. Jung, Michel Montaigne, Michel Nostradamus, Ada Lovelace


Thats so funny I named Isaac after that one person. Oh by the way INTP.

hey interesting thread

i got:

ENFJ

EXTRAVERTED 56
INTUITIVE 38
FEELING 38
JUDGING 11

uh

Dangg, you gots the cool people.

Your Type is
INFJIntrovertedIntuitiveFeelingJudging
Strength of the preferences %
33
50
25
1

Qualitative analysis of your type formula
You are:

• moderately expressed introvert
• moderately expressed intuitive personality
• moderately expressed feeling personality
• slightly expressed judging personality

I know!

http://www.personalitypage.com/INFJ.html

maj

INFJs are gentle, caring, complex and highly intuitive individuals. Artistic and creative, they live in a world of hidden meanings and possibilities. Only one percent of the population has an INFJ Personality Type, making it the most rare of all the types.

yeah blessing, we are rare

^

LOL. Yeah.

Extraverted22
Intuitive25
Thinking75
Judging 11


You are:
slightly expressed extravert

moderately expressed intuitive personality

distinctively expressed thinking personality

slightly expressed judging personality

Your Type is
INFP
Introverted Intuitive Feeling Perceiving
Strength of the preferences %
67 75 25 22


Qualitative analysis of your type formula

You are:

* distinctively expressed introvert
* distinctively expressed intuitive personality
* moderately expressed feeling personality
* slightly expressed perceiving personality

Wouldn't give up my independence, so yeah. I'd marry someone like me.

Extraverted 6
Intuitive 6
Thinking 31
Judging 11

You are:
slightly expressed introvert
slightly expressed intuitive personality
moderately expressed thinking personality
slightly expressed judging personality

o.o wow we have a lot of extraverted ppl

I wonder how accurate these things are. Also how come everyone hasn't taken the quiz yet?

im isfj...

Introverted 67 (true)

Sensing 38

Feeling 50

Judging 33 (na i judge people a lot, unfortunatly)

i took it, i forgot what i was though o.o

There you go Ali

I did this in Psychology too
Strength of the preferences %


It says Princess Diana, JK rowling and Florence Nightingale had the same type.
Thats cool.

These are all very interesting results. Going back to my original question, I wouldn't want to give up a good sense of independence nor do I expect a spouse to give up his rightful independence too... Having said that, I prefer we can identify with each other's personalities yet have a really strong contrast because it provides a challenge and in turn a way of learning to complement each other based on the differences in lifestyle, thoughts and ideas. What I'd never do is marry someone exactly like me or very much like myself personality-wise. However, a person completely different to who I am to the extent of being the total opposite I would definitely find awkward and incompatible. Note - there's a big difference between what a personality is and what a person's character is.

its funny how most people got carried away with their personality numbers (can a personality be quantified? dunno) and didnt really answer the original question! lol.

^ true that lol

If I got married, I'll expect for a loyal, responsible and loving husband. But, most importantly, he is pious enough to guide me to a right path. If I expect for a match personality with me, I don't think our marriage will be cheerful. There are no diversity in the marriage. and I know it will be a bored marriage ever. I don't mind if I give up from my independence as husband is the one to be respect. I confident he know what he's doing and why he do that for me.

Heard the sayin 'Two wrongs don't make right,'

And I've seen it too, sis. Interesting quote.

Your Type is
ENFJ

Extraverted Intuitive Feeling Judging

Strength of the preferences %
89 12 38 33


Qualitative analysis of your type formula

You are:

* very expressed extravert
* slightly expressed intuitive personality
* moderately expressed feeling personality
* moderately expressed judging personality

:S

I made mum n dad do it hehe. Well dads was perfect, mum struggled n needed my help but the amazing thing was they both had the same personality type of a caregiver 'ESFJ'

My personality however has changed from 'ISFP'
To the 'INFP'
http://www.personalitypage.com/INFP.html

I shall keep a close eye on it and see if it changes again n let you know

omg JJ, I'm an INFP too. =P

Crazy world huh.

Amazingggg! Azam (your name is in Amazing i just realised thats the P in our personality)

But at least i know why i don't get on with mum much, our personalities are way different...and dads too...

boohoo

Dang, thats the..4th INFP i know btw ISFP and INFP are brothers/sisters so It isnt much of a change if you get me

hahahahahahaha! I'm the only one who gets that joke. other than saira.